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March 12, 2004

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Kid's-eye-view of parents' Net restrictions

It would be interesting to see if their parents agree, but US kids' own reports on Net restrictions at home are valuable in their own right. Pollsters Harris Interactive kindly allowed us to ask a question about this of the 1,200+ 10-to- 18-year-old respondents to their nationwide YouthQuery last month. Our question was: "Which of the following limitations do your parents put on your use of the Internet?" Here are their just-released responses - how many 'tweens and teens gave a "yes" answer on the following restrictions....

The March edition of Harris's "Trends & Tudes," with this data in it, can be found in pdf format here.

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'Parents, know your kids' screen names': Det. Williams's Tip No. 5

"Using a computer every day at work or home," Det. Bob Williams writes, "you may take a screen name for granted or not give it a lot of thought. But to ensure your children's online safety, their screen names and passwords deserve some thought. Their screen names should not include their actual names, because if your ISP (AOL, MSN, etc.) provides member profiles, the information in them, along with children's names, can be very helpful to online predators in several ways. For example, a predator can enter certain criteria in a member-profiles search - names, hobbies, sports, or other interests. The search will produce a list of member screen names. The predator can then send an instant message and start a dialogue with the child, using his or her own name. Children are inclined to respond to messages from people who use their names and act familiar by using personal information found in member profiles.

"Also, if you have teenagers at home you may want to know their passwords (it's a given with younger kids, right?!). Now, from experience I realize I am entering dangerous territory - the big debate about privacy invasion vs. concerned parent. I have investigated numerous reports of runaway teenagers and, in most cases, the fleeing child contacted a friend online and told them where they were headed - or contacted the person to whom they were running. In one case, the parents knew the child's screen name and password, so they could search through the child's online communications and figure out where the child went. A lot of time was saved, and the child and parents were quickly reunited.

"Reunions can happen a lot less quickly when parents don't know screen names and passwords because this information is protected by federal law. For police to gain access to an account in order to search through a child's messages for her whereabouts, they have to obtain a search warrant for the ISP to release a temporary/emergency password for an account, losing valuable time in a run-away case."

Det. Bob Williams is a father of two high school students and Youth Officer in the Greenwich, Conn., Police Department (see Part 1 of this series for more on Bob).

Send questions, comments, your own family's stories anytime - via feedback@netfamilynews.org!

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Web News Briefs

  1. EC commits $61 million to kids' Net safety

    The European Commission wants to step up Europe's fight against Net content that's illegal and harmful to children and is putting 50 million euros behind the effort. Since 1996, the focus of the Safer Internet program has been mostly inappropriate content on the Net; now with Safer Internet Plus, the EC is adding racism, spam, and other new media (including content on mobile phones) to the project. Safer Internet Plus is a four-year program that starts in 2005, according to the EC's press release.

    Part of the explanation offered for this significant commitment is the online- family data: "According to an upcoming Eurobarometer survey, half of Europe's parents do not think their children know what to do if a situation on the Internet makes them uncomfortable," the presser reports. And on family Internet practices: "An EU Safety, Awareness, Facts and Tools (SAFT) survey last year found that 46% of children in Northern Europe who chat on the Internet say someone has used it to ask to meet them and 14% have actually met someone in this way, but only 4% of parents believe that their children have done so.... European parents seriously underestimate their kids' daily exposure to harmful content and dangerous situations online."

  2. Tons of news on spam...

    But nobody's sure how much impact it'll have on you and me. The US's biggest ISPs - America Online, Microsoft, Yahoo, and EarthLink - have teamed up to file the first major lawsuits under the CAN-SPAM Act, ZDNet UK reports. (FindLaw.com has the actual lawsuit docs.) But the New York Times has a source saying the lawsuits aren't likely to be very effective, that ISPs have sued spammers before ("Microsoft filed 60 spam-related suits last year"), and the situation is like cutting off one of the hydra's heads and having two more pop up." Here's the Washington Post's coverage. Meanwhile, the FTC has started the public- comment period on CAN-SPAM enforcement measures, including the idea of a Do Not Email Registry (like the Do Not Call one for telemarketing), and Maryland legislators are proposing a new state law that would criminalize the sending of spam, FOXNEWS.com reports. On a new spam front, the FTC is starting an effort to nip cell-phone spam in the bud, CNET reports . (Our thanks to BNA Internet Law for pointing some of these pieces out.)

  3. Alcohol sites attracting kids: Study

    Almost 700,000 kids and teens people visited alcohol company Web sites just July through December last year, according to a Georgetown University study. Many of those children "played video games and downloaded music, email gadgets, and icons - all the while immersed in the marketing of beer and alcohol," according to the Associated Press's article on the study. One of the study's authors, Jim O'Hara, director of the university's Center on Alcohol Marketing & Youth, likened these sites as "virtual cyber playgrounds with no adult supervision." The Distilled Spirits Council in Washington called the study a "publicity stunt" for fund-raising purposes. Here are other key findings:

    • 13% of all visitors to 55 alcohol company sites were "under the legal drinking age of 21."
    • The most popular sites among youth marketed beer and so-called "malternatives" ("generally sweet-tasting alcohol products"), according to the AP.
    • 59% of Bacardi.com's visitors were "underage persons."
    • The two sites with the most visits from underage users were Budlight.com and Budweiser.com (an estimated 90,000 visits each, July-December '03).
    • Parental controls on computers block some but not all of these sites - 6-8 filter programs blocked Budlight.com; only one blocked Bacardi.com.
    • The sites generally require age verification, "though there is no way to verify the truthfulness of the user."
    • Games were featured on 10 of 15 beer Web sites, 7 of 19 sites for distilled spirits, and 4 of 12 for malternatives.

  4. US and UK to fight violent sex sites

    UK Home Secretary David Blunkett and US Deputy Attorney General Jim Comey this week announced they would be setting up a joint task force to investigate ways to shut down extreme porn sites on the Web. The Guardian quotes a spokesman for Britain's Home Office as saying that the sites are "a significant problem, not in terms of numbers but in terms of the evil of these sites." Two sites featuring necrophilia "were implicated in the trial of the man who killed [31- year-old] Brighton teacher Jane Longhurst" last March, according to The Guardian. This week's development came after Secretary Blunket met with Longhurst's family. The Home Office spokesman said cracking down on these sites would be more difficult than on child porn sites because of US's First Amendment, but "possible action could involve work with Internet service providers and credit card companies whose services enable users to pay to access porn on the Web." Here's coverage from the BBC and ZDNet UK on this.

  5. IM security flaw found

    If anyone at your house uses MSN Messenger for instant-messaging, you'll want to get it patched - it could be a window on your PC's hard drive for strangers. According to CNET, three new security flaws have been found in the latest versions of Messenger, and one allows people to "view the contents of a victim's hard drive during [an IM] chat session." The three flaws are not super-high-risk, but worth patching in any case. Here's where to go to download the patches at Microsoft. Of course, if you and your kids have configured Messenger's preferences so that no one but people on their buddy list can IM with them, the flaws can't be exploited, but patch them anyway. Smart kids can change the preferences anytime. The best thing is to have everybody heeding a family rule that parents and kids together set preferences, which can't be changed without a parent's permission. See our January 7 issue for more on "IM risks & tips," with information on configuring IM preferences/options.

  6. Web's scintillating personality tests

    Online personality tests are hot, and we have a feeling teenagers are a factor. Tickle.com, one site offering tests on sex and careers, as well as personality (plus dating and social-networking services), had 14.3 million visitors this past December, up from 5.6 million in December 2002, the New York Times reports. A section of Tickle's "Fun Tests" is specifically for Teens. The Internet makes personality tests - "long a staple of women's magazines" - more personal (because instantly customizable) and more social (people can email each other their results). At Tickle, "a small staff of psychologists develops the tests, which are then rewritten by the marketing department for popular appeal," according to the Times. The dating-service part of Tickle (the $19.95/month fee might be a barrier for teens) puts those test results into member profiles. That distinguishes Tickle from other dating services like Match.com. The test results "and Tickle's matchmaking test, which has 18 questions, are used to produce a compatibility score between a prospective couple." The free eCrush.com and Bolt.com might be more appealing to teens for matchmaking, but Tickle's basic personality quizzes are free.

    While we're on the subject, parents might want to ask their kids what they put in their online profiles, whether at AOL, in instant-messaging services, or individual Web sites. These can be read and used by foes as well as friends!

  7. Multilingual worm posing as Microsoft

    Worm writers certainly don't make it easy for us computer users! Windows PC owners are told to apply Microsoft's ever-more-frequent security patches, but watch out for worms posing as patches. "The latest variant of the mass-mailing Sober worm masquerades as an official Microsoft patch for the MyDoom worm," CNET reports. It comes in an email with fake Microsoft warnings and error messages, so people think they have to click on the attachment. Tell your kids not to click! "Microsoft has always maintained that it does not email patches to people, so they should ignore any such messages." Instead, go to Microsoft's Windows Update page.

    From the "What Will They Think of Next?" Department, a worm that attacks worms! And antivirus viruses! The latest variant of the NetSky worm (the 11th in less than a month), will be the last, according to a message from its author in the worm's code, CNET reports (of course, new NetSky versions appeared since, The Register reported today. "Although the NetSky worm has caused misery for users," CNET says, "it is not malicious in the same way as Bagle and MyDoom, which have been designed for the sole purpose of transforming unprotected PCs into an army of spam senders," according to CNET. "Recent versions of NetSky have actually attacked and removed the Bagle worm, and the author of NetSky refers to his team as 'antivirus' writers."

  8. US states moving against spyware

    Utah is the first and other states will follow, CNET reports in a story about state legislatures' drive to control "spyware" and other software that hijacks personal computers without owners' permission. Utah's governor hasn't signed the bill yet, but it passed, and lawmakers in Iowa and California have also introduced anti-spyware proposals. People in the Internet industry are worried, though, that "spyware" and "adware" aren't clearly defined in these initiatives, and that legislatures are trying to regulate technology rather than how it's used. There's anti-spyware activity at the federal level too. The "SPYBLOCK" Act, introduced in late February, "would make it illegal to use the Internet to install software on people's computers without their consent and would require companies that offer software downloads to provide more disclosure about what the programs do and what information they collect," the Washington Post reports.

  9. China: Net buffer zone near schools

    The Chinese government will create a cybercafe-free zone of 660 feet around schools, the Associated Press reports. "Although Chinese leaders encourage Internet use for business and education, they have expressed growing alarm that it is exposing young people to pornography and influences the government deems harmful. Officials also worry that students spend too much time playing video games." The AP adds that China has 79.5 million Internet users, as of the end of 2003.

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